Thursday, August 04, 2005

Right to hate

Does anybody have a right to hate?

i always browse my dear friend Gailey's blog, and i was somewhat astounded to see an anonymous person, posting several hate messages. kesyo daw ipokrita at social climber achuchu sya. he/she even said that he/she is in Gail's friendster list.

let's make things simple: IF you think a person in behaving in a very bad way, if you are a TRUE friend, you would definitely get her attention, because she's your friend, coz you care. due to that person's post, she is not Gail's true friend, meaning she/he doesn't have any right to judge her, coz he/she doesn't know her. Di ba? Bakit ka naman magaaksaya ng effort na gambalain ang taong di mo pala kilala? Kung asar ka sa isang tao, iwasan mo na lang, i mean what was the point?

Back to the main question. Dahil minsan rin naman, mahina ako, nararanasan ko na mainis sa isang taong di ko naman kilala. Merong ganun, di ba? Tipong unang kita, asar ka na. Ako mahina talaga ako sa mga taong medyo mahina ang understanding, lalo na kung ilang beses ka nang nage-explain. Since then, I always tell to myself na be patient. Mahina ako kasi sa ganun.

Minsan naman may kaschoolmate ako, bale 3rd yr high ako nun & i joined COCC training. Officer ko si girlalou, and everytime she sees me, she seems to always annoy me by asking several stupid questions (you wouldn't dare retorting kasi officer mo nga sya), making me do stupid things, punish me for being late daw. Sabi ng mga ibang officers ko, asar daw sya sa akin. Dahil saan? Di ba masakit rin naman ang masaktan ka dahil sa wala? Na may naiinis sa yo kahit wala ka naman talagang ginagawa.

Sana naman maisip nang ibang tao, konting empathy. AND What goes around, comes around.

1 comment:

Markus Ezekiel Caidoy said...

Hayaan na natin sya..sabi ko nga free world toh..If the person see's me that way, I don't have time to exert any effort and please them. My goal is not to make people like me...

Thanks so much!